They begged us again and again for the privilege of sharing in the gift for the believers in Jerusalem. 2 Corinthians 8:4
The church in Macedonia, though going through their own hardships, wanted to help another church in need. It was not a duty, an obligation to meet, but rather they considered it a privilege. Paul attributes that to the joy they had in Christ. Their giving only increased that joy.
It is a joy to me to participate in ministry or in helping those I love. When someone I know has a need, or is in pain, I want to be there with them doing what I can. It isn’t always, or even usually, convenient or easy. It comes with a cost but one I will gladly pay if I am able. And one I never regret.
I don’t like appearing busy because others may be reluctant to approach me for help. We have a saying among my friends, “don’t say no for me.” In other words, even if you know I’m busy, let me decide if I can help or not. Trust me enough that I will say no if I must, but don’t exclude me from the joy of ministry and fellowship together without an ask. Share the joy.
I need to remember that in reverse as well. It is my default to not want to bother someone for help. But maybe I’m robbing them of a chance to use what God has given them – in either time or resources. It’s ok to ask others to join in the work. If giving and ministry service is left to a select few, we hoard the privilege and satisfaction of doing what God has called us to do. Share the joy.
Inviting others to be part of a solution, part of a kindness, part of a healing, brings bonding, reward and joy. Let’s let everyone bring what they can in a gift of service. Don’t say no for me and I won’t say no for you. All are welcome and desired! The burden will be lightened and the joy will be multiplied. God is good!
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