And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God. “Don’t be afraid,” he said. “My father Saul will not lay a hand on you. You will be king over Israel, and I will be second to you. Even my father Saul knows this.” The two of them made a covenant before the Lord. 1 Samuel 23:16-18
Despite being a prince, a warrior and the heir to the throne, Jonathan is known by most of us, not for what he personally achieved, but because of his friendship with David.
The thing that strikes me is his understanding and acceptance that life didn’t revolve around him, there was a bigger story. I’m drawn to people who seem to have a supporting role – Barnabas to Paul, John the Baptist to his cousin Jesus, even Samwise to Frodo. It’s not that they played second to the other person (except of course to Jesus), it’s that they realized they were part of a bigger story and they were advancing the plot.
Jonathan was the son of a king, but that didn’t make life easy. His father suffered from mental and spiritual issues and was abusive at times. Some of you don’t have to imagine what it’s like to grow up with such an unpredictable parent. Be encouraged that Jonathan grew into a man of integrity with a godly perspective on life and his identity. While still honoring his father (they died on a battlefield together) his ultimate loyalty was to God.
Having defeated a band of Philistines with just his armor-bearer at his side, he became a celebrated warrior. He was popular with his fellow soldiers and likely would have made a powerful king. But God had other plans and Jonathan knew it.
Jonathan embraced David - as a friend and as God’s anointed future king. He embodied courage, not just on the battlefield, nor in standing up to his father, but in laying aside his own ambition and security. He risked much for David – because he loved him but also because he trusted God.
This self-sacrificing friendship is remembered throughout the generations. Jonathan means “God has given,” or “God’s gift.” He was definitely a gift to David. But I also see him as a gift to his family, redeeming Saul’s line from disgrace and offering hope in the face of shame. There is always a remnant, a hope within every family line. And by submitting to God’s plan, he was a gift to Israel and to all of us in his part to protect David and the Savior to come from his line. What did Jonathan receive for this? Obviously and most importantly the reward that obedience to God brings. He also received compassion. David, bereaved of his friend, cared for Jonathan’s son as his own. And finally, Jonathan’s name is remembered throughout the generations for his faithfulness and friendship.
God brings His people together to work in unity to bring His Kingdom. When I realize that I am a part of a bigger plan and allow God to use me for His purpose I can yield my personal ambitions and truly lift others up. I’m not the lead character of my own show. It’s not all about me. This is God’s story.
Lord, we are all supporting characters in Your story. Thank you for the gift of Jonathan and his example of friendship, faithfulness, humility and sacrifice. May we all be remembered by such a good name.
And David said to him, "Do not fear, for I will show you kindness for the sake of your father Jonathan. 2 Samuel 9:7
